145. Do you feel alone and isolated navigating the challenges of stepfamily life?

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Have you ever tried to describe your blended family's unique challenges to a friend — only to be met with a blank stare because they simply didn't understand?

Or maybe you felt judged by someone who just didn't get the reality of your family dynamics.

Or somewhere along the way you were given advice that just wasn't helpful.

Most of us living in blended family dynamics have been there — we often feel alone in our struggles.

We might even start to believe that there's something wrong with us because no one around seems to be able to relate to what we're experiencing.

But the truth is, you're not alone.  You may just need to be intentional about finding your community.

We discovered early in our journey just how valuable a supportive community is.  Particularly because blended family dynamics can be so confusing, chaotic, and painful.

The empathy, encouragement, and wisdom of others that are traveling down the same bumpy road are invaluable.  Navigating all the complexities that come with stepfamily life is much better when you can lean on others who you know really get it.

In this episode, we'll share our personal experience in supportive communities as well as 4 benefits of community that have led to our family's success — and lots of other families too!

You'll Discover:

  • The value of community in cultivating hope and experiencing real progress in your blended family

  • Why trying to do blended family life 'in a bubble' leads to isolation, loneliness, pain, and disconnection

  • 4 positive outcomes of being involved in the right kind of community

Ready for personalized support?  Schedule your free coaching call

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Feeling overwhelmed and not sure where to start?

With so many episodes available here on the show, it might feel a bit overwhelming to find the topics that matter most to you.  That's why we've created the Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz which will direct you to the most impactful episodes that pertain to you personally.

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You don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

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Mike Anderson

I grew up in difficult stepfamily dynamics.  I have experienced life as a step-child, a step-sibling and a step-parent.  My stepfamily perspective combined with my expertise as a Professional Life Coach uniquely qualifies me to help you move forward in your stepfamily journey.

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