046. How to Focus When Your Stepkids Are Ruining Your Marriage

More ways to listen:

 
 

Do you ever think back to when you and your spouse just started dating?  You know — when you felt really connected and things seemed so much easier. 

But now the reality of busy family life seems to interfere with your marriage, creating disconnection and maybe even conflict.   You're probably frustrated by all the relational challenges — especially around step-kids and parenting issues.

It's tough for any stepparent to admit it, but sometimes they really do feel like their step-kids are ruining their marriage.

We get it!

Mike has experienced plenty of frustration and even anger because of the impact my daughter has had on our relationship over the years.

Sometimes it's easy to place blame and get stuck there.  But that usually leaves you feeling hopeless because it seems like your step-kids have all the power!

In this episode, you'll discover some practical strategies to regain your power by moving forward with intention — and how to get your marriage back on track!

You'll Discover:

  • How to stop blaming and start building

  • How to "Frame It" rather than "Fight It"

  • Simple strategies to meet the needs of everyone in your blended family

  • How to separate family 'business' and focus on building more romance

  • Practical tips for connecting and safeguarding your marriage

Ready for personalized support?  Schedule your free coaching call

We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

Feeling overwhelmed and not sure where to start?

With so many episodes available here on the show, it might feel a bit overwhelming to find the topics that matter most to you.  That's why we've created the Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz which will direct you to the most impactful episodes that pertain to you personally.

Join our community

You don't need to navigate blended family life alone.  Join our supportive community where you'll connect directly with us and other couples just like you who are intentionally investing in healthy blending strategies.  Click the link to find out how to join: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether

Subscribe or Follow the Show

Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode. 

Click here to subscribe on Apple Podcasts

Click here to follow on Spotify

Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts

If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-)  Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback.

Mike Anderson

I grew up in difficult stepfamily dynamics.  I have experienced life as a step-child, a step-sibling and a step-parent.  My stepfamily perspective combined with my expertise as a Professional Life Coach uniquely qualifies me to help you move forward in your stepfamily journey.

Previous
Previous

047. How to Like Your Stepchild Even When You’re Feeling Frustrated and Annoyed

Next
Next

045. How to Cooperate More with Your Spouse’s Uncooperative Ex